Best Communication Books and Tools

Charisse Swart

What are the best tools to improve your relationship?

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Relationships take time and practice to improve. As many as 50% of marriages end in divorce because they didn’t take the right steps before marriage, take a look at the last book ‘1000 Questions’, or they don’t know how to implement the correct skills in their marriage. Here I have listed a few different tools, courses, and books that will help you with your marriage. If you are planning on getting married, simply want to improve your marriage, or if your marriage is on the rocks.


Mend the marriage:

Summary:

Brad Browning's "Mend the Marriage" program is meant for couples who are willing to put in the time to save their marriage. It is easily the most comprehensive and most effective guide to stopping divorce and saving your marriage. After reviewing several similar products, I recommend "Mend the Marriage" as one of the first choices for anyone facing marriage problems.

What you get:

200+ page eBook

4 hours of audio

7 Parts video series

Worksheets

3 Bonus eBooks

Pros:

World-renowned relationship coach.

10 years of experience working with couples

Best selling author

For both men and women

Available immediately

Can be done without the other person knowing.

Cons:

Only available in digital format

Certain topics may be too generalized.

FULL REVIEW:

When I first stumbled across Brad Browning's new "Mend The Marriage" program, I thought it would be more or less the same as other similar products for sale on the internet. This is a great program, and I'm confident that it will help anyone’s marriage in the right direction.

First of all, "Mend the Marriage" is easily the most thorough guide I've seen (and I've looked at a lot). It covers all the bases: you may think that your situation is unique and that any book on the topic can't possibly address the issues you're facing. Well, that's not the case! Many have gone through or been through what you are right now. Brad has covered every possible scenario and "what if,”. You will have the answers you are looking for at the end of this course.

The program provides hundreds of real-world examples and how to apply Brad's techniques. Brad’s chapter on how to handle arguments with your spouse, for example, has a bunch of incredibly effective and innovative techniques that will resolve conflicts quickly and without any lingering hard feelings... and the whole book is full of this kind of stuff.

Perhaps most importantly, it's very clear that the psychological techniques recommended in "Mend the Marriage" have been researched and tested by men and women in the real world. Brad Browning is an experienced marriage coach, and his time working with married couples facing divorce is very evident throughout the book. He also includes several "Ask the Counsellor" boxes where a certified couples counselor weighs in on a variety of hot topics.

Brad claims that almost all marriages can be salvaged, and I agree with him. Your situation may seem hopeless...it is not. There are many testimonials on his website with evidence that this program works.

If you're ready to get instant access to all of Brad's sneaky psychological tips and techniques, head over to his website and watch the free video presentation now. Trust me, you won't regret it... and it might just make the difference between "divorced and lonely" and "happily ever after". Wishing you all the best.


50 Secrets To Blissful Relationships:

Summary:

Michael Webb has been married to his wife, Athena, for 25+ years. In the past 21 years, they have not fought. They practice what they preach. This is a man that you want to learn the “50 Secrets To Blissful Relationships”.

Pros:

For both men and women

25 years of marriage

Was on Oprah

Author of 18 books

Instant Access

Cons:

eBook only

No audiobook

Each tip follows the same formula

Full Review:

Let's face it, there are thousands of marriage counselors and millions of relationship self-help books. So what makes 50 Secrets of Blissful Relationships by Michael Webb any different?

Let's find out:

First of all, it's great to see that, unlike many other authors, Michael Webb lets you inside his world. You get real-life examples of ways to solve relationship challenges, all based on his marriage journey.

Second, unlike many other "experts" and marriage counselors, Michael Webb walks the walk. Michael Webb has never fought with his wife of 15 years, Athena. Inside this book, you learn exactly what he's done to make this a reality. Everything you read, he does or has done to improve his relationship, and that's what I wanted to see - experience and real-life practice. He isn’t just an expert in his field, he lives what he teaches.

The book itself is simply set out with about one tip per day and just continues like this until the end of the book. Just about every tip had me shaking my head in agreement, as it gave me real-life solutions and several of those "a-ha" moments of profound understanding that I can apply in my marriage.

The only real downside of the book is that every tip is set out with the same formula: story or unrelated example, followed by how that example ties into relationships and that exact topic.

If you're impatient or in a hurry, you can always start about halfway down and find out exactly what point he's trying to make.

Also, instead of the tip titles providing a clear "how to solve X problem" or a clear topic description, it simply has a phrase that ties together with the information. Now while this is no big deal, it would have been nice to be able to skim the book to exactly the advice I wanted. However, if you read the information on the sales page, you can work out what information belongs where in the book. So it's not too bad.

All in all, this is one of the best relationship books I've ever seen and it deserves a read, especially if you have serious problems in your relationship.


1000 Questions for couples:

Summary:

Michael Webb is the author of "1000 Questions For Couples" the most comprehensive book of questions that all couples should ask before getting married. Covering: lovemaking, religion, careers, money, children & raising them, household work, personalities, the future, and much, much more.

Pros:

Solve communication problems

Author of the best-selling book, ‘The Romantic’s Guide’.

Instant Access

Tips for dating couples and married couples

Cons:

Only in eBook

No audiobook

Full Review:

5 Tips to having a happy ever after marriage:

TIP#1 -- CONTINUE DATING

Over the years, people often drift apart or relationships and marriages become stale because couples fail to do new and special things together. That's why going on new and refreshing dates is so important. There is something about "dating" that creates a sense of magic in a relationship and can even bring relationships out of a rut. While on a date, you also put more effort into your appearance, have more uninterrupted time to communicate on a deeper level, and are naturally drawn closer together. Stuck for ideas? Spend the day at the aquarium, zoo, museum, carnival, bookstore, beach or park. If money is an issue try taking a walk in your neighborhood or going for a hike. The things you do don’t have to cost you an arm and a leg. If you can afford to be lavish, please go ahead.

TIP#2 -- DELAY IS OFTEN BETTER

It's a well-documented statistic that couples who have dated for a year or longer before marriage have a significantly lower rate of divorce than those who married after a short dating period. A year of dating gives time for many emotions to surface and many character traits to be discovered. The infatuation period is between 6 and 18 months. In this time you have your blinder on to see the flaws in the other person. You may adore someone in the spring but despise him or her in the winter. Asking someone for his or her hand in marriage on the third date isn't romantic. It's gambling.

TIP#3 -- ALWAYS EXPRESS YOUR LOVE

Oftentimes, as a relationship matures, partners tend to stop praising each other because they 'assume' their partner already knows what they're thinking. When in reality, a day should not go by without you praising your partner. Compliment them on their cooking, reaffirm that they're the greatest person in the world, or tell them they're a wonderful role model. Reaffirm your love for them. If you want to be loved and romanced by your sweetheart, love and romance them first. When they're feeling loved, it is much easier to love in return. Are you a super supporter of what your mate does and says? So do you cheer them on and praise them constantly? Or do they constantly hear boos or silence?

TIP#4 -- TAKE TIME TO UNDERSTAND YOUR PARTNER

Couples with the most problems are often the ones who say, "I just don't understand him/her." So let me ask you: How knowledgeable are you about your mate's profession or the degree they are pursuing? Do you know anything about his or her family's past? Are you able to have a meaningful conversation about her crocheting hobby or his interest in rugby? If you are a man, do you fully understand what women experience during PMS or Menopause? You don't need to be identical, but make an effort to learn about the things that interest your life partner and you'll grow closer as a result.

TIP#5 -- ANSWER THE *BIG* QUESTIONS

Does your partner want kids? Do you both want careers? Do they have a history of spending their way into debt? Do they go to church? In my opinion, the biggest reason almost half of marriages end in divorce is because couples fail to ask each other the right questions BEFORE they get married. I guess people think they'll be able to change their spouses after marriage and everything will be better. Wrong. If you fail to sit down and discuss finances, religion, sex, housing, your future, and other topics in great detail, you could end up with nothing but argument after argument for the rest of your days. In the end, if you both have completely different views, desires, and goals in life, there's no guarantee that chemistry or "I love you" will help you stay together. Make it your utmost priority to understand each other 'inside-out' BEFORE you take that walk down the aisle.

Hi, I am Charisse Swart

Greetings, lovely readers! I am delighted to connect with you through the shared spaces of our digital world. As a dedicated homemaker, my days are woven with the threads of familial love, nurturing, and the subtle art of creating a haven within the walls of our humble abode.

While I occasionally attempt to don the cloak of logic, my dear husband often lovingly nudges me back to the realm of my true nature - that of a relational soul. You see, I possess a heart that thrives on connections, cherishing the intricate tapestry of relationships that grace our lives.

My journey is fueled by an unwavering passion for fostering flourishing bonds between people. There's an innate joy that blooms within me when I witness the beauty of heartfelt connections, the kind that endure the tests of time and adversity.

Yet, amidst the beauty, there exists a poignant ache within me when I see marriages falter, falling short of their boundless potential. It is this very longing for the realization of every relationship's full splendor that propels me forward, seeking understanding, insight, and perhaps, a touch of wisdom to share along the way.

Thank you for joining me on this adventure. May our shared exploration illuminate the path toward deeper understanding, compassion, and the boundless possibilities that lie within the embrace of genuine relationships.

Talk n Listen

Charisse Swart

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